You're done doing everything for everyone else.
It's time to step back into you.
ALL of you.
It's 15 minutes, no overwhelm,
and it's about softening back into yourself, into trust and to help you reignite your spark
Not "when you feel ready" - Because news flash, you'll never feel ready. All you have to do is DECIDE. That's where the real magic starts.
Not "when the kids are older" - Because, well, by then it's going to be 1000 x HARDER (not easier) to get the results you desire
Not "when I've got more money" - Because you'll never have enough money if you keep working from a place of lack and don't use your beautiful creative powers!
After this chat you will begin the process of:
healing old patterns and wounds
forgiving and moving forward
feeling lighter and at ease
being more present in your life
and so much more..
Hi, I’m Kiri—creative guide, communication coach, and mama of two wild-hearted kiddos, Olive and Lauki. I live in rural New Zealand with my husband Laurie, our dog, and a whole lot of chicken and sheep.
Originally from Canada, I earned my Bachelor of Fine Arts from the University of Ottawa and trained as a high school art teacher here in Aotearoa. But the most transformational learning I’ve done has come from life itself—especially from the beautiful mess of motherhood and marriage and the deep deep journey of rediscovering myself.
When we became parents, my husband and I went from connected and curious to distant and disconnected. Between the kids, the chaos, and the unspoken expectations, we forgot how to communicate—and almost lost each other in the process.
In 2019, everything changed. We made a decision: we weren’t going to give up. We committed to finding our way back—not just to each other, but to ourselves. Since then, we’ve rebuilt our connection through communication, creativity, play, and radical honesty.
That journey brought me here.
Now, I support women—especially mothers who’ve poured themselves into everyone else and are finally asking: “Who the f*ck am I now?”
I help them reconnect to their voice, their body, and their creative power so they can rebuild their relationships, revive their desires, and
ReCreate their lives from the inside out.
You don’t have to choose between being a great mum and being fully alive.
You get to have both.
Before working with Kiri, my relationship was pretty bad.
We were co-existing. I didn’t know where I wanted to be.
I was ready to leave — the only thing stopping me was not being able to afford living on my own.
If it wouldn’t have been for Kiri, I would have never said anything to my husband.
- Laurie
Kiri is such a great listener, takes her time with me, always makes me feel heard and understood, and gives valuable advice and next steps.
In just a few months of working with Kiri, I went from feeling deflated, unsupported, and conflicted about staying in my marriage to feeling happy and more secure in my relationship.
- Hanna
Through Kiri’s program, I have learnt so much about myself and how I work. Kiri has given me realistic and straight forward advice and strategies to help with understanding myself, which has helped me immensely in my relationship.
I now have the confidence to communicate effectively with my husband, and I can say that I am loving my life and having fun with my husband and family again rather than just doing the daily grind each and every day.
It’s definitely been so beneficial for me! There’s always things to work on but your strategies make it so much easier to cope with everything
- Shawna
"As someone who is separated from her husband, working through Kiri's Relationship Academy modules has been a different experience for me than for many others.
However, I am finding it really beneficial for helping me find myself again (Mum-life is so all-consuming at times!)
It has given me some prompts to consider my behaviour, communication styles and boundaries, and to apply this learning to my parenting and to my co-parenting relationship.
I'm grateful to Kiri for her thought-provoking topics, presented in such a relatable way, as it is really helping me to grow into a more aware person!"
- Erin
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